Separate The Good From The Bad
If you are dating someone and want to know if they are really interested in you, holding out from sex can give you an answer. If they are just dating you for sex, they won’t stick around. If a meaningful relationship is truly what you’re craving, there’s no point in tiptoeing around the subject. You’re not going to bring around a person who’s skittish enough to freak out at the very mention of something serious by having sex with him.