If none of the techniques above worked for you, don’t feel ashamed or bad. Almost 40% of men suffer from premature ejaculation, so you are not alone by any means. Visit your doctor and ask about what options they may be able to suggest. Most doctors will put you on an anti-depressant medication. Even though you may not be depressed, the SSRI (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor) family of antidepressants, including drugs such as Prozac and Zoloft, may help your situation. The drugs can be taken several hours before sexual activity, and since they inhibit arousal, they can help make it easier for a man to control ejaculation.