Use Your Ears
Your ears can actually be your best weapon in the bedroom. Often times we zone out because we are deep in pleasure or completely focused on one individual thing. This is not uncommon or necessarily wrong, but don’t forget to relax your mind and open your ears. Listen to your partner’s breathing. If their breathing speeds up or they let out a slight gasp, it’s a sign you are doing something right. If their breathing is very monotone, it may be time try something new.