Get to the point.
Most women are absolutely flooded with messages on Tinder and online dating sites. We tend to include small talk when first starting a conversation, but this may not be the best approach. Waiting too long to escalate the conversation can backfire and make the other person lose interest. If a person is responding to your small talk, it means they are interested in you. By continuing the small talk, you are not only displaying a lack in confidence but also losing conversation material for a date.